When I started writing Alex: Under His Control, I first thought about what I wanted to say, and how creative I wanted to be.
Because I appreciate a lot of the elements in the BDSN lifestyle , I wanted to show appreciation for that form of committed and trusting relationship between consensual adults that respect and appreciate the artwork of this type of lifestyle and each other.
What I didn’t want to do was to tell a story about a lifestyle that I had no knowledge of, so of course research was needed to better understand this lifestyle. For me reading manuals/books to educate myself didn’t really capture the in-depth source of commitment, time and mastery this lifestyle needs.
My first book is what I’ve come to understand and appreciated so far, and in my future books, I hope to further show my appreciation and understanding of this creative lifestyle.
